Why do I write?
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Have you heard about the JFK terminal evacuation that happened recently? Remember the evacuation in Newark some time ago? Finally, what about some idiot trying to blow up his reproductive organs on a plane around Christmas?
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Keep on reading if the following sounds familiar: you go to bed but cannot fall asleep because your brain is buzzing with thoughts, plans and reminders ("It's so-and-so's birthday on Wednesday, and I still haven't bought a gift!", "don't forget to pick up dry cleaning tomorrow", "it would be great to end world hunger, I should look into it in the morning" etc etc).
After struggling with this nuisance for some time, I found a solution: write those thoughts down and your brain will let go of them, as if by magic. This technique was mentioned in "Getting Things Done" as a way to capture to-do items and clear your mind in order to be able to focus better. Only in our case it's not about focusing, but more about stopping your brain from running in circles, trying to tell you to not forget something that it deems important (that's what it feels like in my head, anyway) Question from the audience: how do you take notes without waking up your partner or turning on the light and destroying the "I-am-trying- to-fall-asleep" mood?Comments [0]
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I'd love to live in a clutter-free home. Ever since moving into a smaller apartment slightly more than a year ago and dragging a bunch of useless stuff along with us, we haven't actually gone through and cleaned a lot of those old things out. It's very friggin' frustrating. Let me list some of the items that are kicking around our home, just to give you a taste: unassembled DVD stand; bar chairs, still wrapped from the move last August; a couple of boxes of old electronics that I haven't used in more than 4 years; scattered magazines that nobody cared to read in months. Don't ask me why this hasn't been thrown out - if I knew, I wouldn't be writing this ;-)
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Every time I travel to a country that speaks a language that I can't really understand, I'm reminded of just how powerful literacy is, and how much you are missing if you can't do something as basic as reading and speaking.
This was especially evident on our recent trip to Japan. My fiancée and I spent 9 days there, running around armed with guidebooks and cameras, trying to take in as much as we could, without knowing any Japanese besides simple "hello" and "thank you". During our preparations, we did spend some time learning both Hiragana and Katakana alphabets, hoping that it would help us with reading signs and such (and it did, slightly. More on that later.) Overall, we had a blast - food was excellent, sights were breathtaking, and people were very very nice. Both Tokyo and Kyoto are very tourist-friendly, with enough signs in English to be able to move around relatively easily. We also made sure to book hotels that had English-speaking staff, which turned out to be very useful. To westerners, Japan is usually associated with something mystical, mysterious and elusive: samurai, geishas and sushi might come to mind when you think of it. Those are the stereotypes, the staples of the japanese tourism - in the same way that Times Square and Statue of Liberty are "typical" New York and, to a lot of people, US. But that is a very superficial way to look at any country, and especially one as rich and unique as Japan. You can't even imagine the whole picture until you try to dig deeper, and this is where lack of literacy hurts you the most. What do I mean by "digging deeper"? Anything that allows you to experience the country beyond the typical guidebook, something off the beaten path. Even though we pretty much stuck to our copy of the Lonely Plant, we did try stepping outside of the boundaries a little, especially when it came to food. Two of the best advices that we got were to watch out for plastic food displays outside of restaurants, and to ask for an English menu before being seated. Another thing that really stood out is how little control you sometimes have over things around you when you cannot effectively communicate with other people. This is where one of two things happen: you either start hating the experience, or you try to open your mind and go with the flow. Again, this was especially relevant to food: most english menus in japanese restaurants don't describe meal ingredients very well. You usually get a bunch of pictures that you can point to, but unless you know what those dishes contain beforehand, it's very difficult to get an explanation from waiters, since, while trying to be as helpful and understanding as they can, most of them only know very basic English. That's how we ended up eating raw eggs in soups, raw beef sushi and a slew of still-unknown-to-us sea creatures. Do I regret it? Absolutely not: all of that was very delicious and novel (except for one mollusk that was chewy, tasteless and useless, and I still have no idea what that thing was). We have stumbled our way through a whole lot of tasty meals, each new restaurant being a separate adventure, which made the whole trip that much more memorable and fun. It culminated in us going to a neighborhood restaurant where a bunch of locals seemed to hang out, and none of the staff spoke English, but which had a menu with some English words in it and no pictures. We gestured our way through the ordering process, having picked half the dishes without completely understanding what they would look like. Everything turned out to be delicious, but I really wish we had some basic language skills to be able to ask about things on that menu. But I digress. Back to the literacy: another thing from the "it should be obvious" department that is worth mentioning is that you can ask all you want, but it won't do you any good if you can't understand the answer. Having pulled out the phrasebook and rattled off something that I thought was a simple question in some decent Japanese, I was astounded to hear a comprehensive answer from a native speaker that meant absolutely nothing to me. Don't try to be clever and pretend that you know how to speak, because you might actually fool some people into assuming that you can understand the language. Stick to super-simple English unless you have enough Japanese to understand certain words that you expect to hear as part of the answer. Having said that, we did meet a couple of people that didn't speak any English, but were very helpful with giving directions by using maps and gestures. Let's talk about reading. Japanese writing system consists of 3 different alphabets: kanji, hiragana and katakana. The first one contains thousands of characters - those are the Chinese characters that look baffling to us foreigners with untrained eyes. Each kanji character corresponds to one or more words and has several possible readings. Both hiragana and katakana contain only slightly more than 40 characters each, making them much easier to learn than kanji. Hiragana is used for words that don't have kanji representation, and for various grammatical functions. Katakana is used to write words of foreign origin. If I knew back then what I know now, I'd spend all of my preparation time making sure that I can read Katakana really well. There seemed to be a whole lot of signs and western food restaurant menus written in it. A lot of those words came from English. We didn't do well in katakana studies, and only ended up being able to read maybe 30% of what was written, at slow speed. But whenever I or Yelena did manage to read and understand a whole word, it felt great, and was usually helpful in some way (that's how we found our way to the Iwatayama monkey park in Arashiyama - the book didn't explain how to get there exactly, the roads were confusing, and the signs were only in Japanese). You could just try to ask somebody, but what's the fun in that? ;-) And it doesn't help that I'm one of those stubborn and overly self-reliant people... The bottom line is: Japan is an awesome country to visit if you are prepared to open your mind to a culture that is likely to be very different from what you are used to. Plus, every little bit of reading or speaking Japanese will make your experience that much more rewarding and enjoyable. Personally, I'm determined to learn at least some language before we go next time. And so should you. -- PeterComments [0]
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I've been using DVRs for the last five years, starting with Tivo and eventually switching to an integrated recorder that came with the HD cable box. At the same time, the amount of TV that our household consumes has been going down, having recently stabilized around one sports program that we never miss, a couple of cooking shows, and an occasional comic relief with Jon Stewart or Steven Colbert. Needless to say, all of these shows are recorded and time-shifted for convenience, and all commercials are fast-forwarded into oblivion.
A few years ago, New York City banned smoking in all public places. Before that, even if you weren't a smoker yourself, going into bars and secondhandedly breathing in burning tar with friends that smoked wasn't a big deal, really - a lot of people did it. I did it, repeatedly. After the ban went into effect, it became a lot more pleasurable to visit restaurants for non-smokers. It also had an additional benefit of making some people think harder about kicking the habit. Nowadays, every time I go into a place where people still smoke while eating or drinking in enclosed space, it very clearly smells bad and feels wrong. How and, more importantly, why did we do this before?
After having enjoyed commercial-free programming thanks to DVRs, every live TV show that gets interrupted by ads feels like walking into a bar full of cigarette smoke: to a non-smoker, it is repugnant. I am not there for the tar or commercials, but for the food and content. Live TV, you are dead to me.
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